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Feel more like roommates than best friends?

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Sound familiar?

Does any of this sound like you?

You're polite with each other, and you can't remember the last time you felt like best friends.
One of you keeps trying and quietly wonders if the other still wants to.
Life got busy, and somewhere in the logistics you stopped feeling like husband and wife.
The fights mostly stopped, and so did the closeness. Now it's just polite.
You miss being wanted. You miss being reached for.
If you're nodding, you're not too far gone. You're exactly who this is for.

If you still miss each other, there's something here to work with.

What you had has been buried under everything life piled on, until the two of you became the thing that could wait. One small conversation is a real place to start.

Reaching for something like this takes courage. It's what people do when they're still fighting for their marriage.

Terry and Katie McCabe Terry & Katie

We've been where you are.

We're Terry & Katie McCabe. Years ago, we almost lost our own marriage. We did the hard work to come back from it, then trained with The Gottman Institute and Prepare/Enrich so we could help other couples do the same.

We're a husband and wife who've sat in the distance and the resentment, wondering if it was even fixable, and found our way back. That's what we walk couples through every day.

Today more than 2.7 million people follow along with us, and we've guided thousands of couples back to real closeness and trust.

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