Terry & Katie McCabe

Why we do this

"We get so caught up in the house, and the kids, and the homework, and all the things, that we forget that before we had all these responsibilities, we were actually friends who had fun together."Katie McCabe

We've had to learn this in our own marriage, too. A lot of couples drift into the roommate zone without noticing. It's super common, and just because it's common doesn't mean it's healthy. We want to help you make it healthy.

Terry has a line he uses with husbands all the time: get curious, not furious. And there's one we come back to in our own home: if it's important to my spouse, then it's important to me.