Marriage coaching for couples ready to feel close again
Marriage coaching with The McCabe Life is online time for the two of you with a husband-and-wife coaching team. We find what's driving the disconnect and give you clear steps to practice together between sessions.
A few questions first, about three minutes. Then someone from our team reaches out to set up your free Zoom call.
For married couples who still want this marriage
- "We're running on autopilot."
- "The same argument keeps coming back."
- "I reach for her and get a pat on the back."
- "He says all the right things, and then nothing changes."
- "Every talk turns into the kids, the business or the schedule."
- "I feel the rejection, so I've stopped reaching."
Coaching is for couples who still want this marriage, even when it's hard. It's also for the husband or wife who's ready before their spouse is. Here's how that works.
What couples say after doing the work
"We are becoming closer than ever."
We were in a bad place and vicious cycle of resentment for years that we didn't know how to get out of. Now, we have a new excitement about our marriage that we didn't know was possible.
Justin & Wendi"They brought hope to our family."
We began coaching during a critical time, pregnant with our third. After every session, we walked away with new skills that directly addressed our communication and conflict resolution.
Rich & Megan"Our marriage is 1000% better."
We've grown so much in our understanding of each other, learned ways to feel seen and heard, are dating again, and have made regular communication part of our daily routine.
John & LisaWhat coaching with us looks like
A husband-and-wife team who've lived hard seasons in their own marriage, with real support between sessions so you're not figuring this out alone.
- Sessions with your coaching coupleVideo sessions with a husband-and-wife team, built around what's actually going on between the two of you.
- Time on your ownEach of you gets private time with your coaches, so there's room to say what's hard to say in front of each other.
- Someone in your corner every weekWe check in between sessions, so the work keeps happening on the busy weeks too.
- Help between sessionsText or email your coaches when something comes up. You don't have to wait for your next session.
- Our group programAccess to our group program resources, so you have even more to lean on as you practice.
Our coaching couples are led by Terry and Katie McCabe, Gottman trained and Prepare & Enrich certified, coaching couples all over the world.
Your coaching plan and investment are walked through on your free consultation, once we understand where you both are.
If you've tried before, here's what's different
You can start on your own, with what's in your hands right now. You don't need them to agree first. When they're ready, couples coaching is there for both of you, and you won't have to start over.
Every session with us ends with something to do. You leave knowing what to try this week, and someone holds you to it between sessions.
You work with a husband-and-wife coaching team, so each of you has someone in the room who gets your side.
Nobody here is keeping score. We've lived hard seasons in our own marriage, and you'll be met with honesty and kindness from the first conversation.
Feeling numb is common in a long marriage, and it doesn't mean it's over. A lot of couples aren't out of love. They're out of practice.
How it starts
- Tell us where the two of you areA few questions, about three minutes. A real person on our team reads every answer, so you won't have to start from the beginning.
- Your free coaching consultationA Zoom video call with Matt from our team, about 60 minutes, best with both of you there. You'll leave with a clearer picture of what's been pulling you apart and what to do next.
- An honest next stepIf our coaching fits, Matt walks you through what it looks like and the investment. If it doesn't, he'll tell you so and point you toward something that fits better.