The questions couples ask us most, answered plainly by Terry & Katie's team.
A marriage coach helps the two of you see what's driving the disconnect and gives you practical steps to work on together. Sessions look forward, at what you can practice this week. With us, that happens online with a husband-and-wife coaching team.
They're different. Counseling often spends a lot of time on the past. Coaching looks forward, with practical skills, clear next steps and someone holding you to them. Many of the couples we work with tried counseling first and came to us because they wanted tools they could use at home.
Yes. A lot of couples start with one spouse who's ready first. You can begin on your own with what's in your hands right now, and when your spouse is ready, couples coaching is there for both of you.
Start small, and start tonight. Turn off the TV and give each other fifteen minutes to talk about anything except the kids and the schedule. Our free guide walks you through it step by step.
Yes. With honesty and the right support, many couples rebuild trust after an affair, and it often starts with one of you being ready first.
Keith and Bethany lead Restored, The McCabe Life's infidelity recovery coaching, with Raul and Jenna on their team. It's for both of you, the spouse who was hurt and the spouse who caused the hurt.
It can, and a lot of couples feel it. Hormone changes can affect sleep, mood, energy and desire, and both spouses can end up feeling lonely and misunderstood. Your doctor is the right person for the medical side. We help with the marriage side: how to talk about what's changing and how to stay close while it does.
All of our coaching happens online on video calls, so you can work with us from anywhere. Terry and Katie live in Meridian, Idaho.
It's a free Zoom video call with Matt from our team, about 60 minutes. He'll have read what you shared, so you won't have to start from the beginning. It goes best with both of you there, somewhere you won't be interrupted, and if your spouse isn't ready yet, Matt will still meet with you on your own. You'll leave with a clearer picture of what's been pulling you apart and what to do next. If our coaching fits, Matt walks you through it and the investment. If it doesn't, he'll tell you so and point you toward something that fits better.
That's where most people are when they reach out. You don't need to have it figured out or know what to ask for. Tell us where the two of you are, and we'll help you sort out the next step from there.
Last updated October 2026.
Tell us where the two of you are. It takes about three minutes, and a real person reads every answer.